Love affairs with married people don’t yield the promised happiness. I have had countless clients who were in love with married people. The stories of these people are very tragic.
In most cases married people don’t leave their marriages. Only in some cases do married people divorce and get married to their new love partners.
You are risking to break your heart by getting romantically involved with a married person. Are there ways to avoid getting hurt? Yes maybe.
In this post I will try to explain why married people don’t leave their marriages. I will also explain about the dangers of having love affairs with married people, because there is a lot of jealousy involved.
Love affairs with married people:
do you love a married man?
Do you love a married man? I feel sorry for you. I also feel sorry for the man’s wife. I feel very sorry for the man’s children if the man has children.
Leave this man alone, because he belongs to his wife and children. If you stay in the relationship with this man, the wife will discover your bond of love.
All hell will break loose when the wife discovers you. The married couple will be headed towards a divorce and you will have an enemy hunting after you.
Moreover, it is also possible that the children of this man will want a personal revenge on you. The children will hate you for the rest of their lives.
The most unpleasant thing that can happen to you is this: the man will go back to his family and also hate you for destroying his life. You will be very sad.
For this reason, it is advisable to choose a single love partner. Don’t get involved in love relationships with married men.
Love affairs with married people:
do you love a married woman?
Do you love a married woman? I feel sorry for you and I feel very sorry for the woman’s husband. This is a very dangerous case when two males compete for a woman.
You should be in charge of the relationship and try to evaluate your love partner. Is she willing to leave her husband at once? Is she a decisive woman or is she in the claws of her husband?
She won’t leave her husband fast if she and the husband have children. Why? The consequences of a divorce could be very painful: the husband may take the children and never allow the woman to see the children.
There are very proud types of men and they don’t tolerate a divorce. In this case, it is fully possible that the woman will never be given a chance to meet her children.
Life will be much easier if you seek a single woman.
Love affairs with married people:
why don’t they divorce?
In most cases, a married couple has children. They are not willing to divorce because of the children. In some cases, people don’t want to divorce, because of several things:
they do business together
they have financial bonds (property)
they are afraid of conflicts within the family
they feel no need to divorce
they don’t care about your feelings of jealousy
Love affairs with married people:
should you love a married person?
Should you be in a relationship with a married person? No! You will be miserable, sad and very jealous all the time. It is clever to ask the person at once:
“Are you single?”
If the person answers:
“Oh, it is very complicated right now. I live together with my wife, but we don’t really love each other!” – this person may cause you a lot of emotional suffering.
Put this person on your standby list and do not initiate a love relationship fast. Give this person time to think. It is also possible that this person will not divorce at all.
Aim for single people, because single people are free.
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